Personal Development: Uncover Old Beliefs to Reach Your Ultimate Level 10 Life
Are you thinking about to do some personal development work?
Do you feel like life’s just not working?
Do you know there is more that is possible for you, but you don’t know how to get there?
I remember when I was causing all kinds of struggle in my close relationships. My husband didn’t want to be around me. My children wouldn’t listen to me. My friends didn’t get very close to me. My co-workers seemed to want to get me in trouble. I was bossy, pushy, manipulative and prickly. But I didn’t know it.
Coming out of denial can be challenging. I remember a co-worker giving me a handout on trauma. I read it, wondering what on earth she had given it to me for? I didn’t have trauma. I had a perfect childhood.
My Journey Into Personal Development
As I began my journey into personal development, I began to uncover old beliefs. These old beliefs, that were limiting, negative and holding me back were my operating system.
Many common negative, limiting beliefs are:
- I’m not good enough
- No one wants me
- I’m not lovable
- I’m ugly
- I’m disposable
- I’m not worthy
- I’m unimportant
- Who do I think I am
- I’m a failure
- I’m an embarrassment
- And many more
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT is a journey into these negative beliefs.
Discovering where they came from. Finding the seed that was planted so many years ago, to have you believe these thoughts are true.
The uncovering process can be new and challenging for some people. The brave and courageous ones stuck with it. They are willing to unearth anything and everything that is holding them back. Once you know what’s stopping you, you can choose a new programming. You can choose to overwrite the limiting beliefs.
Some people ask me if its true. I know, from personal experience, that it is.
No More Negative Thinking!
I remember waking up one morning, looking out the window, and it was raining. I had been practicing my affirmations daily and was using another tool to rewrite negative beliefs for about 6 months. When I looked out the window, my first thought was, “what a beautiful morning, all of the trees and flowers are going to get beautiful from all this rain.” Then I remember thinking, “Yes! I finally got here! No more negative thinking!”
The 6 step process of personal development goes like this
1) awareness of the problem: realizing something is not working, and coming out of denial. Your life is not perfect. If it was, you wouldn’t be feeling or experiencing this conflict.
2) learning tools for solving the problem (we have hundreds of tools in our course for this).
3) Doing the old behavior and realizing you should have used a tool in that moment.
4) Realizing it’s time to use a tool, but doing it the old way anyway.
5) Realizing it’s time to use a tool and using the tool!
6) using the tools without thinking about it.
Of course, these steps are not always sequential, and could take quite a few tries before getting to step 6 – and by quite a few, I mean, like a million (just kidding, but don’t expect perfection on your first try).
THE ULTIMATE GOAL FOR PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
With personal development, the ultimate goal is reaching your optimal, level 10 life. We have many programs and courses (and books are coming) to help you create the life you want!
THE ULTIMATE GOAL OF BEAUTIFULLY AUTHENTIC
The ultimate goal for beautifully authentic is to have you being your beautifully authentic self, setting boundaries, using your internal knowing and intuition to make decisions, taking care of yourself so you can be in service to others and the planet, knowing how to lovingly reparent your inner child, and using affirmations and other tools to rewrite old programming that’s no longer working for you.