Wondering how to get sex right now? It’s been forever since the last time you had sex, and you know you want it, and he wants it, but it never seems to just work out at the right time. You both have too much going on, and by the time you want it, it’s too late, he’s too tired, and you have a headache. You’ve been rejected way too many times. You miss that passion and that spark, and you wish you had it with your partner. But you know if you could connect sexually and intimately, that you would feel so much closer as a couple, that you need that old passion and old spark back.

But too much time and resentment seems to be in the way. You imagine a relationship full of passion, and you want to get back to the time when you ran to the door to greet him, he would get excited, and boom… kitchen floor time.

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Who can relate?

7 Tips How to get SEX RIGHT NOW

1.) OPEN YOUR HEART

Sounds easy right?

Do it right now.

Can you? Let me know if you’d like a heart opening meditation.

2.) CLEARLY COMMUNICATE

So often, relationships are screwed up because of a lack of communication. Just think about the little stuff that drives you crazy that you hold on to. What is he doing that’s driving you mad?

Here’s an example: Mike knows it’s helpful to buy me my plane ticket. He called and asked me for my driver’s license. I thought he would put it on his credit card. But he asked me for mine and said it would be easier than me paying him back. Then later, I told him I had the $300 cash to give him. He said, “why didn’t I put it on my credit card then?” I said, “because you told me to put it on mine!” LOL. Pretty simple misunderstanding. And you know, that kind of misunderstanding can end up being something that drives you crazy as a couple.

3) CLEAR THE SPACE

• What does clearing the space mean?
• What does it look like to clear the space?
• What does it feel like? Think about it right now. Think about the little stuff that’s between you right now.
• Do you want it there?
• Do you want it gone?
• If you want it gone, and you want that connection, then you get to clear the space.

Here’s an example: My x-husband called about “the schedule.” When we were married, we fought about the schedule. The conversation started out as the same old conversation. I am selfish and don’t consider him. But this time, we did it differently. This time, I created space for him to express himself and repeated back what I heard and understood. He made space for me as well. He said “I hate doing this” and I said “I love doing this” and he said, “yeah, this isn’t so bad, it’s the holding all the anger and resentment and feeling taking advantage of I don’t like” and then we talked about his lack of boundaries are the reason that’s happening. I said, “I trust that you will say NO to me when I ask for something.” After we talked, the air was clear. No one is holding resentment, anger or bitterness. Although we aren’t together anymore, I just wanted to give you a recent example of what it means to clear the space between a couple who divorced because of resentment.

4). BE SEEN

This means GET NAKED… but not without your clothes. It means, get vulnerable. Be seen. Share the hard stuff, no pun intended. Sometimes, it takes a coach to teach you as a couple how to do this.

Example: I recently worked with a couple on betrayal, lack of trust, and a gigantic misunderstanding. They both completely over-reacted, made up ALL kinds of crap about the other one, and were in the middle of stewing about it when they came to see me. The beauty and MAGIC happened in the moment when they both SAW each other, and remembered why they love each other so much.

Just be the YOU he fell in love with.

5.) SEE HIM

This means, MAKE THE NEST.

• Be the safe space. BE IT.
• Don’t DO anything. It happens inside of you. It could come out in your behavior, like your words, and your tone, but first and foremost, it starts inside of you.
• Find the part of him you trust.
• Find the part you love.
• Find the part that is whole, under all of his challenges and struggles.
• Find his little boy. Allow your natural mothering, supportive, self to see his little boy. Example: I see Mike’s little boy and soothe him.  This doesn’t mean I treat the man like a child.  It means, I see the child inside when he’s present, and lovingly interact with the child.  I don’t judge the man for having an inner child, or inner child moments.  I cherish him.
• Allow yourself to fall in love with him.
• NO JUDGMENT. Judgment means NO SEX.

6.) BE AN OFFERING

This doesn’t mean DO something. This doesn’t mean “make a move.”

• It means BE SEXUALITY.
• Be your true self.
• Be the verge of an orgasm, offering yourself to God, offering your open heart to the world.
• Be an offering of healing. Be an offering of hope, love, grace, generosity, fun, play, joy, surrender, vulnerability… whatever is YOU. Who are you?! BE THAT for your man.
• OWN IT. Own the YOU that he fell in love with. And offer what you have. OPENLY. As if you were opening your legs, and offering it with your hands, and your heart.
• When you eat your dinner, eat it in your feminine sexual essence. Taste everything. Share. Share what it tastes like in words… share the food…
• CONNECT WITH YOUR EYES. Let him all the way INSIDE of you… not with his body… and then his body WILL respond. He cannot help it. YOU ARE THE APHRODECIAC. YOU ARE IRRESISTIBLE. You cant’ stop yourself from loving him, and being a FULL bodied expression of the love you have for him. And all you have to do is LOOK DEEPLY in his eyes. Hold him. Hold his gaze. Hold his body as yours as an offering… until he melts.

Photo by Bruce Mars

BAM! It happens instantly. They cannot resist your LOVE. Women’s bodies exude out sex through the heart chakra and receive it in through the second chakra. Men exude sex energy through their second chakra and receive into their hearts. We show them how to open their hearts. We penetrate their heart. They penetrate our body.

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